lover

My lover writes under the glimmer of the pale moonlight. His thoughts only on his beautiful delicate princess, nothing could keep him away from his reverie. Whilst writing, momentarily he feels as if her cascading dark hair is gently touching his face… her breath is light despite being in deep slumber, dreaming of their future. A strong gust of wind blew and she shivered… he held her even closer and tighter, keeping her warm. He has to protect her. Under the blanket of the night, they lay still… both hearts beat in unison.

expiry

Creepy and freaky individuals when come together, are able to either traumatize or become strong pillars of support for the other.

Ok, that is mean… the part where I said they are creepy and freaky.

See, we can all be happy if we want to. We can all forgive and forget if we try hard enough to. After all blood runs thicker than water. Family bonds are forever. Are they really?

I am so sick of hearing about those. Ah, the bitterness of being betrayed by someone you thought you could rely upon.

Yes, I do have issues.

So here comes my theory – every relationship has an expiry date. I am hesitant to apply it to family members because the networks tend to be stronger… so let’s be more specific, every friendship has an expiry date.

Posted it as a Facebook nickname and some interesting points to ponder upon:

- My “friends have an expiry date” THEORY. it may sound crude but i do not believe in the notion of friends forever. certain people are closer to you during certain periods and as easily, they will fade away from you when the time comes for them to. so treasure the “limited” moments you have with each other, because the expiry date may come soon and you may be helpless about it.

- I don’t believe in the expiry date theory. If they can fade away, then they were never friends to begin with – they were just acquaintances.
Acquaintances come and go in your life. Situations bring you together, you add them in FB, and then when things change, they’ll just be another icon in your ‘friends’ page.

Real friends are always ‘there’, no matter whether time and circumstance puts a gulf in between. You may have no time to meet, lose touch, have different life paths, or the various other disturbances that cn break a relationship – but all you have to do is to reach out, and you’ll be surprised at how the relationship is still as stable as ever.

- Somehow (due to modernization?) it is supposed to get easier to maintain relationships (technology and transportation better sort) but the relationships have the tendency to be like hi and bye… not very deep… or we are just taking for granted that “since you are in my msn or Facebook”, you are my “friend” and i do not necessarily need to talk to you.

Another point is that – we tend to meet different sort of people in different phases of our lives. its not really easy to maintain too many relationships… so i suppose we DO prioritize those who can “benefit” or help us function better in our lives. and we will try to avoid those that pull us back.

—-
Touche.

I DO love my family members and friends. They are odd and quirky, but great individuals nevertheless. Always there for me most of the time. Always offering a kind word and never ceasing with encouragement. I am glad I have them.

We will constantly change the structure of our “support network” (family, friends and acquaintances).

For me, I am quite apprehensive to have this “in-law” extended into mine.

Ah damn those Korean dramas that portray evil mother-in-laws! – They expect you to be the best for their sons, yet at the same time they will always think you are never good enough for their sons.

So you have to be mindful of your manners and behaviors. Incessantly panic over one negative comment. (I am already hating this role despite not even starting it! But what choice do I have?)

In other words, you become a totally different person – a decent and boring one at that. Never show your wilder side, do not take the risks… oh wait, you are supposed to be plain and normal AND at the same time, interesting and unique.

Crazy one this one. Schizo.

Ah the need to be liked and accepted. Why is it so important?

Cross fingers and hope for miracles :X

Ok fine, kind mother-in-laws DO exist.

Hmm maybe I have such an informal and outrageously (improper) communication standards with my own family members… that I find others to be too rigid and proper (conforming?). That suffocates me!

Let me define what is improper with an example – with your own family you can run around from one end of the room to the other, with just a towel draped around you. You could at the same time, be singing loudly at the top of your voice. Then you squeeze and tickle your little niece and nephew. That is proceeded by you suddenly pretending to be a monster and start chasing after them. Yes, still with only a towel draped around you.

For now, I just feel so out of place. I want to be myself but somehow I know I can’t.

the perfect male

the perfect male is horny yet sensitive?

ah, how precise

it seems that the decent and good-looking ones are always taken. leaving the semi-perfect ones (average looking, a certain degree of charisma and most of all, those who are able to manipulate others subtly) to “lord” over others. no matter how much of a jerk they are, they have a string of hopelessly in love Juliets, yearning after them.

the perfect male:

(1) does not emit any foul smelling gas from his orifices in front of you, whether intentional or not.

(2) puts you first in all matters, even his career, friends, hobbies and own family.

(3) is gentlemanly – i.e.: opens doors for you, when he sees you struggling with your food, cuts them into smaller bites, without you needing to tell him to.

(4) always asks for your opinion and listens to you wisely. however, he needs to have his own point of view… but that does not mean he has to dismiss yours.

(5) never makes you cry… okay this is too extreme… does commit mistakes, realizes them, apologizes sincerely and NEVER repeats the same mistakes.

(6) to a certain extent, thinks like a girl (and their difficulties) especially when they go shopping and pick out movies and places for dates. i.e.: an absolute no-no if the girl likes/wants to wear high heels and he asks her to go hiking.

(7) never cheats or intentionally makes her feel insecure.

(8) is romantic, adventurous and full of sweet surprises.

(9) knows how to do the household chores. at least the basic ones like mopping the floor, dusting and folding clothes.

(10) showers, puts on nice perfume and dresses himself well for you.

Or maybe are some women just too fussy, prudish and overbearing?

ah, there are always alternatives

and ANOTHER alternative:

My perfect male snuggles with me every night wearing only what God gave him, doesn’t pee on the toilet seat, is loyal to a fault, loves me even when I am stinky, stays in bed with me and has spent the past week kissing all my tears away, brings me special gifts and sometimes more than one in a day, he protects me from my enemies and some of my friends lol, he brings me the newspaper every morning, he is quite frisky chasing me around as we get our exercise, and he is just happy snuggling on the couch watching a movie with me.

I bet you thought I was writing about my man. Well I am, my furry one, as the Prince loves me through all life’s sorrows. He loved to hear another male voice on the other end of the speaker phone and would wiggle his little tail and snuggle up extra close to me when he would hear that special ringtone. I think he knew that it made me very happy to spend time talking to my other “almost perfect male” and therefore it made the Prince happy to give me to him.